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After
years of warring between the Netherlands and France, the Dutch emerged
triumphant. King Louis XIV of France, naturally upset, reprimanded his
ministers for their defeat. Colbert, one of King Louis' leading advisors,
retorted politely, "Sire! The measure of a nation lies not in its
length and breadth, but in the character of its people."
Nineteenth century American poet and essayist Ralph Waldo Emerson echoes
this truth: "The true test of a civilization is not the census,
not the size of cities, nor the crops - but the kind of men the country
turns out." A similar sentiment in different ords is spelled out
in, "When wealth is lost, nothing is lost. When health is lost,
something is lost. But when character is lost, everything is lost."
What is Character ?
We see that many have realized the importance of a good personal character
- but people seem divided when it comes to defining 'good' or 'bad'
behaviour. Some have taken good behaviour to mean helping the needy,
donating money... Many only go as far as outer appearances - manners,
etiquette, hygiene... Few stop at purely physical acts going on a pilgrimage,
performing rites and rituals...
True, all these qualities can be part of a good character - but it doesn't
end there.
So then what is Character? Is it invisible, undescribable?
No. Look in the Oxford Dictionary and you'll find 'character' defined
as: - n. the collective qualities of characteristics, especially
mental and moral, that distinguish a person or thing; moral strength.
However, the concise but revealing definition by Dwight L. Mody goes
a long way in helping us understand what character really is. He says:
"Character is what you are in the dark" - i.e. what/who you
are when you are alone!
People may try their best to appear 'goody-goody' in public view, but
on closer inspection, their private lives can be a totally different
story. Alphonso Karr believes: "Every man has three characters
:
one that he exhibits;
one that he has;
and one that he thinks he has."
In the end though, we cannot afford to forget that at least one person
will always know what we are really like: our innerself!
The Predominance of Character
There is a beautiful verse in the great Hindu epic scripture, the Mahabharat,
that brings character into true light.
Shilam & Pradhanam lokesmin Shilam Sarvam Pratishthatam.
It means: Character is predominant in this world. It is the upholder
of all.
Once Lord Indra arrived unexpectedly at the palace of Bhakta Prahlad.
Prahlad greeted Lord Indra with according respect. Indra was pleased
with the royal reception. When Indra was ready to leave, Prahlad did
not forget the customary tradition of offering 'dakshina' (gifts) to
a brahmin after feeding him. Prahlad thus asked Indra, "What can
I offer you as dakshina? Ask, I shall give whatever you desire, and
promise not to go back on my words."
Indra replied, rather shrewdly, "Character!"
Prahlad was taken aback for a moment or two, but bound by his promise,
he agreed. "Very well," Prahlad said in return. But at precisely
that moment, Prahlad witnessed a strange sight. He saw the personified
forms of Dharma (Righteousness), Vartan (Moral conduct), Bal (Power)
and Laxmiji (Prosperity) begin to leave.
"Where are you all going?" Prahlad asked hurriedly.
Laxmiji answered: "Without a doubt - Righteousness, Truth, Conduct,
Power and I (prosperity) are all dependent upon Character. Therefore,
we must follow Character."
Character is the home of all virtue.
Keeping and Losing Character
Nowadays it seems harder than ever to be good - and even harder to stay
good. With ever increasing doses of violence, corruption, seduction...
being force-fed to us from all sides - be it by a TV commercial, an
ad in a magazine, a film or a billboard - it requires an extra concerted
effort to stay aloof from bad influences, to stay clean.
A mere splash of bad conduct can leave a lingering stain and spoil an
otherwise pristine character. We all know how a blotch of tomato ketchup
stands out loud on a gleaming white T-shirt. But as explained by the
Japanese proverb: "The reputation of a thousand years may be determined
by the conduct of a single hour." A bad impression is harder to
shake off than it is to earn a good one .
Thomas Paine's observation rings louder than ever, "Character is
easier kept than recovered."
Our Capital
Of all our 'personal' belongings - money, property, health, fame, beauty,
knowledge, talent, etc. - character alone is our true, lasting and indispensible
asset. It is born from our day-to-day or rather, moment-to-moment actions
and inclinations.
"Character is the result of our conduct," says Aristotle.
With our pure conduct as our capital, it seems we have the purchasing
power to acquire anything.
In the Mahabharat we find, "With character one shuns all vices
and attains Righteousness, Prosperity and Salvation."
Bhagwan Swaminarayan explains in His Shikshapatri that if our actions
are in line with the scriptures, then happiness is ours too.
"He who abides by the codes prescribed in the scriptures will find
happiness here (on earth) and hereafter (in heaven)." - Shikshapatri
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Pramukh Swami's Mission
Once Pramukh Swami Maharaj was in the southern Gujarat village of Karcheliya.
After visiting 50-60 homes in the dusty, sticky summer afternoon, Swamishri
arrived at the house of one Chhaganbhai - dripping with perspiration.
Even Swamiji's upper cloth was wet with sweat.
A devotee there told Swamiji about a miraculous laminated photo. "Bapa,"
he said, "water constantly trickles out of this murti of yours!"
Not the least bit amazed, Swamishri took his right index finger, wiped
his brow, and commented, "Chhaganbhai, that water won't do anyone
any good. This water (sweat) will!"
It has been Swamishri's ever untiring efforts of going to the people
- meeting, talking, listening, counselling, consoling, inspiring, elevating
- i.e. his hard work has cleansed the characters of thousands across
the world. This is his one and only life mission to see one and all
happy by making their lives better.
Once Swamiji was asked for a formula that would help all towards a better
life. Spontaneously Swamiji replied, "Develop a good character
yourself and help develop a character-rich society." Says Charning
too: "The great hope of society is the individual character."
Swamiji often explains, "We believe not in converting people from
their religion, but rather transforming their lives for the better."
Not brainwashing - but rather washing brains, washing hearts.
Swamishri's mission can be said to be nothing less than the mission
of God. As Alexander Pope has said, "An honest man is the noblest
work of God." Clearly, this reveals Swamiji as God's 'Character
Envoy'.
Finally, let us share the sentiments of a spiritual leader of the Ramanuj
Sampradaya, the respected South Indian saint Pujya Chinna Jeer Swami.
On December 1995, in his address to the assembly at the Amrut Mahotsav
festival in Bombay, he said: "Not only does Pramukh Swami Maharaj
turn outer wastelands into wonderlands (referring to the spectacular
70-acre 'Swaminarayan Nagar' township that was once nothing but bog-land),
but he does it with people too. I see him as a great sculptor of society,
and his every sadhu, every devotee, every volunteer, as pieces of his
art, his masterpieces!"
Sadhu Paramtattvadas
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