Together everyone achieves more. But this is only true when individuals
realise their role
and fulfil the responsibilities allocated to them by the team leader…
Carpenter’s
Tools Committtee
“He’s too noisy. He’s got to step down.”
“Yeah, I agree. He must go.” A cheer of approval erupted,
as the members of the Carpenter’s Tools Committee called for
the resignation of the presiding chairman, Mr. Hammer. Sensing the
hostility, Mr. Hammer stood up and countered, “Okay, I’ll
go. But only if Mr. Chisel resigns as well. You see, there’s
no depth in his work. It’s always superficial.”
As everyone’s eyes turned to Mr. Chisel, he reacted, “Well
if I go, Mr. Rule will also have to go. He’s always measuring
people as though he’s the only one who is right.”
The attention turned to Mr. Rule. Dodging the issue, he accused Mr.
Sandpaper, “I think he should go because he’s rougher
than he ought to be. He’s always rubbing people up the wrong
way!”
Shifting the parcel of blame, Mr. Sandpaper focussed on Mr. Saw, “In
my opinion Mr. Saw should withdraw because he’s always cutting
people up.” Infuriated by the allegations, Mr. Saw was just
about to retaliate when the carpenter walked in. He gathered the tools
into his work bag and took them to his workshop to build a beautiful
and useful cupboard.
Individually, the tools were bickering and disunited. But when united
by the carpenter, they combined with each other to create a beautiful
cupboard. This is the strength of unity – of working together.
Working Together
In Heaven
A story is told in management circles of an executive who died and
went to heaven. There he saw other executives – both successful
ones and failures. They were housed in different rooms. The newly
arrived executive entered the room occupied by the failed executives.
It was dinner time and delicious, mouth-watering food was served.
Yet they were all thin – as if they had not eaten for months!
The reason soon became clear. Each person had a long iron spoon strapped
and fastened from the biceps to the wrist. This prevented the executives
from bending their elbow and putting the spoon to their mouth. And
so, unable to eat, these failed executives became thin. The newly
arrived executive then entered the room containing the successful
executives. He saw the same delicious food and the same set up, yet
all these executives were well nourished. The reason? Each man dipped
his spoon into the food and fed the man seated across the table!
Such co-operation is central to existence, after all, ‘Man is
a social animal’.
What Is Unity?
The Oxford Encyclopedic English Dictionary defines unity as, “oneness,
being one… being formed of parts that constitute a whole; due
interconnection and coherence of parts.”
And in Webster’s New World Dictionary, it is described as, “the
quality of being one in spirit, sentiment, purpose, etc; harmony;
agreement; concord; uniformity.”
Unity, in essence, is the wholehearted combination of individuals
to achieve a specified goal. It is an essential and much-desired quality
sought after by everyone. Unity is to work in harmony with one’s
companions.
The Value Of Unity
The above examples illustrate the benefits of unity.
A united family is a happy family. This bond of unity prevents long-lasting
rifts. Although there may be differences of opinion, they compromise
and speak with one voice. Such families where parents and children
live in complete harmony are the envy of the neighbourhood.
Unity plays an important role in sporting success too. Compare the
performance of a football team which is plagued by discord, disharmony
and gossip with that of a team free of such troubles. History shows
that the latter is far more successful than the former. The reason
is simple – lack of unity breaks the morale, lowers the spirits
and erodes the team’s ability to perform effectively.
Even scientists recognise and are actively striving to harness the
greater power of unity. Since the middle of the twentieth century,
scientists have used the process of nuclear fission to generate energy.
Although a very efficient method, it produces much toxic radioactive
waste. Therefore, efforts are in progress to refine the use of nuclear
fusion technology. In this process two atoms of hydrogen are combined,
resulting in the formation of heavier elements, and the release of
much more energy than is produced by nuclear fission. Furthermore,
nuclear fusion is a clean and non-toxic method of energy production.
Thus, the act of uniting atoms, though more difficult than splitting
them, yields greater benefits. This is what unity can achieve.
Thus, unity or mutual co-operation, is central to human existence
and progress.
Working Together
Everywhere we look, we see evidence of the success that goes with
unity. Sports teams, corporations and even political parties are more
likely to succeed if they are united and every individual co-operates
with other members of their team to work towards their common goal.
Yogiji Maharaj often narrated the story of a flock of birds. Once,
the entire flock was caught under a hunter’s net. They all flapped
their wings and tried in their own way to escape, but their attempts
were futile. Then, one of the doves calmed the others and suggested
that instead of flapping their wings haphazardly, they all flap their
wings together. They did this and flew high in the air, carrying the
net above them. They then rested on a tree and the net settled on
the branches. The birds escaped to freedom from underneath. Thus,
by working together they successfully regained their freedom.
Yogiji Maharaj used to explain that working together like this, in
a spirit of co-operation and unity brings remarkable success. Such
a spirit should be adopted in all activities.
A well-known saying reveals, ‘Coming together is a beginning;
Staying together is progress; and Working together is success.’
In his discourses, Gunatitanand Swami has said, “If five people
or two people of the same inclination get together, they are like
hundreds of thousands and tens of millions. And without this shared
inclination no matter how many get together, they are alone (4-107).”
In fact, even in spiritual activities, where the ultimate experience
is individual, teamwork is an essential ingredient in attaining success.
Emphasising this, Gunatitanand Swami says, “To gain true spiritual
wisdom, Swami advised, ‘If two, four or five people with the
same motive (to attain true spiritual wisdom) stay two, four or five
years in isolation and continually engage in discussion, then knowledge
of ãtmã and Paramãtmã is acquired’
(2-106).”
Further explaining the need for unity in attaining spiritual progress,
Gunatitanand Swami describes the story of the king and a quiver of
arrows. He says, “Adharma sarg jab karat praveshã, sur
nar muni mahi nahi sukh leshã (When unrighteousness enters,
no happiness remains for gods, men and sages). Reciting this, Swami
said, ‘How does such a path of unrighteousness come into existence?
Well, it is when there is mental discord with others that such unrighteousness
enters. But if there is unity with each other (in the fellowship),
then unrighteousness does not gain entry.’ On this, he narrated
a story told by Maharaj (Bhagwan Swaminarayan), ‘A king asked
for a quiver of arrows and said, “Let the strongest among you,
break this quiver.” Then, the strongest man tried but the quiver
of arrows could not be broken. Then, taking a single arrow from the
quiver, he told the weakest to break it. And he broke it instantly.
Then the king told his senior courtiers, “See, if you remain
united like this quiver of arrows, then whoever the enemy is, they
will not be able to defeat you and the kingdom will remain secure
and prosperous.” ’ After narrating this example, Swami
said, ‘If you all – sadhus, parshads and brahmacharis
– maintain unity like this, then no matter what type of internal
enemies you face, they will not be able to defeat you. And if you
do not stay united like this, then even the smallest of defects will
drive you out of Satsang’ (3-58).”
So, teamwork, working together or unity is necessary in all aspects
of life. In today’s competitive business environment, much has
been written and taught about the best way to develop this essential
ingredient among co-workers.
But ultimately, the success of any strategy adopted depends upon the
attitude of each individual in the team: how he fulfils his given
role and his willingness to compensate for others’ shortcomings
by rising above the call of duty.
Pramukh Swami Maharaj has revealed a four-point plan which every individual
of a team should adopt to ensure the success of the team: (1) to willingly
follow instructions, even by giving up one’s preferences, (2)
to uncomplainingly adjust to prevailing circumstances, (3) to tolerate,
and (4) to unconditionally help others.
Yogiji Maharaj, throughout his life, stressed the need for unity,
and his life exemplified the above four principles.
1. To Willingly
Follow Instructions, Even by Giving Up One’s Preferences
Yogiji Maharaj always carried out his guru’s, Shastriji Maharaj’s,
instructions without question. He would postpone whatever he was doing
and first obey Shastriji Maharaj’s wish. Yogiji Maharaj often
said, “If Shastriji Maharaj calls and I am eating, I would leave
my food; and if I am writing, I would drop my pen and go to Shastriji
Maharaj.”
Once, in Sarangpur, after a long, tiring day of service, Yogiji Maharaj
went to sleep at about 1.00 am. At about 2.00 am a group of 75 devotees
entered the mandir, exhausted and hungry. Shastriji Maharaj, who was
sleeping in the verandah, was awoken by their arrival. The devotees
explained that because their bus had broken down they were unable
to reach here earlier. Shastriji Maharaj realised their predicament
and offered to arrange their meal. He went to where Yogiji Maharaj
was sleeping and awoke him. Yogiji Maharaj had been asleep for barely
an hour, but as it was Shastriji Maharaj’s wish, he enthusiastically
got up and gave up his much needed rest.
2. To Uncomplainingly
Adjust to Prevailing Circumstances
In 1953, Yogiji Maharaj visited Ramod with Matam Swami. One of the
devotees, Mohanbhai, had sponsored a meal there. So, while Yogiji
Maharaj delivered a spiritual discourse in the assembly, Matam Swami
began cooking in the kitchen. However, the kitchen was an enclosed
area with no ventilation. And in those days, firewood was used in
the stove. The resulting smoke was unbearable for Matam Swami, whose
eyes began to burn from the irritation. So he gave up and went to
sleep. After the assembly, Yogiji Maharaj went to the kitchen and
saw that Matam Swami had gone to sleep without cooking. When Yogiji
Maharaj asked him what had happened, he explained the situation and
told Yogiji Maharaj, “If you want to offer thal to Thakorji,
then you cook, but I’m not coming into the kitchen.” Yogiji
Maharaj immediately got to work, lit the stove and in a short time
completed the cooking. He offered the thal to Thakorji and then lovingly
called Matam Swami to eat.
Thus, in this way, Yogiji Maharaj realised the need of the hour and
although it was not his responsibility to do the cooking, he accepted
Matam Swami’s decision and completed the task at hand, without
complaint.
3. To Tolerate
Once, Yogiji Maharaj was on a train journey with some other sadhus
and devotees. As usual, he began to sing bhajans out loud. However,
in the same compartment a group of youths, who were noisily engrossed
in a card game, rudely told Yogiji Maharaj to be quiet as they felt
he was disturbing them. Without arguing, Yogiji Maharaj stopped singing
and continued his devotion in his mind. Yogiji Maharaj had as much
right to sing as they had to play cards, but this was Yogiji Maharaj’s
nature – to silently tolerate all situations without any feelings
of ill-will towards anyone.
4. To Unconditionally
Help Others
Yogiji Maharaj had sacrificed his life for God and guru. From the
beginning, he engaged himself in all types of services in the mandir.
His daily routine was such that it would exhaust and frustrate anyone,
but not Yogiji Maharaj. He awoke daily at 4.00 am, fetched 300 sticks
of datan, drew water for bathing and cooking, grazed the cattle, washed
the utensils, cleaned the mandir and performed many other duties.
Thus, he was constantly occupied in the service of others. Shastriji
Maharaj had instructed him to feed the devotees. So for 40 years,
he singlehandedly cooked for them wherever he was. Even while doing
this service, every three days, he observed a waterless fast. Thus,
he put his body through much physical hardship.
All the above details reveal that Yogiji Maharaj was truly a selfless
team player. He never sought praise and dutifully obeyed Shastriji
Maharaj, the team leader, adjusting to the circumstances so that everything
would function smoothly.
So, only when all members of a team develop this attitude is a team
able to work together, to be truly successful and maintain that success.
Today, Pramukh Swami Maharaj, despite being the spiritual and administrative
leader of the worldwide BAPSSwaminarayan Sanstha always discusses
and involves sadhus and devotees in planning and executing various
projects. He does not hesitate in being a team member even though
he is spiritually realised and possesses a vast treasure of knowledge
and experience in many fields. Out of his inclination in promoting
harmony, comradeship and unity (samp, suhradaybhav and ekta) we see
the great achievements he has made. He often says, “Shastriji
Maharaj established the BAPS with only five sadhus and a handful of
devotees. It was their unity and saintliness that produced the BAPS
Swaminarayan Sanstha.”
If the power of unity pervades in the family, workplace, country and
in the world then our lives would be peaceful, prosperous and happier.
Sadhu
Amrutvijaydas