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          Dream, plan and realise the master keys to success in life 
          Introduction 
            Anthony Robbins, in 
            his book Unlimited Power, maps out a strategy for people to scale 
            the dizzy heights of success by banishing the word impossible from 
            their personal vocabulary. He has made a deep study of success and 
            failure, and to turn failure into success by pouring over the success 
            literature of the past 200 years. He tells you of the reasons that 
            made others succeed. 
          Forms of Power  
            The road to success, according to Anthony, is always under construction. 
            It is a progressive path, not an end to be reached. There are several 
            success stories in America of people who started from scratch. We 
            live in an era of astounding success - both on individual and organisational 
            planes. 
            All of us are entitled to our dreams. But do we always end up by realising 
            those dreams? Yes, says Anthony, if you have the knowledge and right 
            strategy. This knowledge gives one the power to achieve, and it has 
            been described as the commodity of kings by Anthony Robbins. 
            Power means different things to different people. Much depends on 
            how power is utilised. Real power is shared power. When people lust 
            after only power then the results are not always happy. That power 
            is best which produces results you desire most and creates values 
            for others. 
            Successful people of the world do not have any special gifts, which 
            you and I do not have. They succeed because they have the ability 
            to take action. 
            In olden days kings wielded unlimited power. Then came the industrial 
            era when money became power. More of it the merrier. We are still 
            living in that age. He who has money controls the industrial processes. 
            We are witnessing a change in the power pattern. Prof. John Kenneth 
            Galbraith has put the whole thing in proper perspective, "Money 
            is what fuelled the industrial society. But in the informational society, 
            the fuel, the power, is knowledge. One has now come to see a new class 
            structure divided by those who have information and those who must 
            function out of ignorance. This new class has its power not from money, 
            not from land, but from knowledge." Not mere knowledge but specialised 
            knowledge that makes one powerful. Those who have that specialised 
            knowledge and the capacity to communicate wield unlimited power like 
            kings in olden days. 
            Communication also confers power. Commu-nication is of two types - 
            internal and external. Internal communication is what we picture, 
            say and feel within; external communication is what we convey to the 
            outside world through words, gestures, etc. 
            All great leaders of the world have been great communicators. They 
            had a way with words and used them to good effect. 
            It takes different types to make the world. No two of us are alike. 
            Some of us are often subject to bouts of depression. It comes about 
            through mental and physical actions. One can get rid of depression 
            through sending messages to the brain in the right tone. If by being 
            depressed anyone thinks he is fishing for sympathy and makes it a 
            way of life, nothing is gained. Try becoming a robust optimist and 
            feel the difference. It is within everyone of us to bring about the 
            needed change. A person can be happy or sad by adopting the right 
            type of physical and mental attitudes and actions. The mind holds 
            the key to one's mental and physical wellbeing. 
          Achievings Dreams 
             
            If dreams have to be converted into reality those who aspire for success 
            should adopt a four-stage approach:  
         
        
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 Define the goal. 
           
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 Decisive action 
              to make a dream come true. 
           
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 Assess whether the 
              actions are taking you near the goal or away from it and attune 
              the mind to achieve the end.  
           
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 Change your behaviour 
              to get what you want, but do not compromise your morality. 
           
         
         
          7 Essential 
            ingredients 
            To succeed seven things are essential. 
            Firstly, passion impels people to their goal. Salmon-like they surmount 
            all obstacles and get what they want.  
            Secondly, they should have belief in themselves. That is what religion 
            provides for. It puts faith into those who are tossed around by every 
            wind. If one has faith in God and faith in oneself tinged with humility; 
            then that faith can move mountains. Only people who have belief in 
            their abilities can take decisive action. 
            The third requirement is to map out a strategy. First the goal has 
            to be identified and then assess your resources. Then one should be 
            sure of whom to meet and cultivate to bring about the desired result. 
            The fourth trait is values. Without values nothing can be achieved. 
            In our own country, Mahatma Gandhi raised politics to the status of 
            religion by insisting on right means. That is what Hindu Dharma is 
            all about. The first out of four endeavours in human life prescribed 
            by Hinduism is dharma, which is then followed by artha, kaam and moksha. 
            Bhagwan Swaminarayan also emphasised a moral code of conduct to safeguard 
            the Bhakti Sampraday He propagated. 
            As a consequence of values the fifth attribute is excellence. 
            And the sixth ingredient is unbounded energy. 
            The seventh element is called the capacity to connect with others. 
            This power is got through communication skills. 
            So these seven traits make people highly successful. These traits 
            feed on and interact with one another. 
          Internal Communication  
            Those who fail need not sit back with folded hands and throw in the 
            towel. The best way for such people is to utilise the internal communication 
            and buck themselves up. Anthony Robbins mentions names of people who 
            became cripples for life because of accidents. They had no use for 
            the world considered normally. Nothing was expected of them. But they 
            clawed back from the brink of disaster and built remarkable careers. 
             
            W. Mitchell was riding a motorcycle at 65 miles an hour. For a moment 
            he lost his concentration when something on the roadside attracted 
            his attention. He skidded under a truck, the fuel in his bike ignited 
            and three-quarters of his body had sustained third degree burns. He 
            refused to give up and resumed his business career. He had a second 
            accident; this time an air crash which left his body para-lysed below 
            the waist. Mitchell never allowed his handicap to come in the way 
            of his life. He has carved out for himself a highly successful business 
            career that bridges him in contact with some of the most influential 
            Americans. He has become a millionaire by sheer grit and God's grace. 
            In the normal course, Mitchell would have been written off as a hopeless 
            case. But he had a strong nerve and the right strategy of internal 
            communication. He sent the right signals and messages to his nervous 
            system. As the brain received the right type of encouragement and 
            stimulus through the messages, Mitchell succeeded. 
            This method of sending messages to the brain to get the desired results 
            is called neuro-linguistic programming (NLP). Previously it was used 
            by therapists. NLP provides a systematic framework for directing our 
            brain. All of us have the same neurology. There is therefore a scientific 
            basis to the adage, "Man is the architect of his own fate." 
            All one has to do is to model oneself after a successful person in 
            the chosen field. A struggling businessman can make a success of his 
            business by studying the thought processes of a successful businessman. 
            How he goes about his work? What actions does he take? What messages 
            he sends to his brain in a given situation? It is well said that those 
            who neglect their past are condemned to repeat it. If we have failed 
            in one venture we should analyse why we failed. How we used our brain? 
            How would successful businessmen interact with his brain in a given 
            situation. By carrying out such analysis and mapping out a strategy 
            we would be eliminating the mistakes already made. Thereby we bury 
            the past once and for all and turn over a new leaf.  
            A word of caution is needed. Imitation in this case should always 
            be the first step to creation. Anthony wants all of us to evolve our 
            own models by looking at those who have succeeded.  
            This strategy has worked in the case of Mitchell. When he was lying 
            in the hospital, his friends not only brought good cheer to him through 
            get-well cards, they read to him of success stories of people similarly 
            placed as himself. The role model strategy leads to what is known 
            as Optimum Performance Technologies. It is a holistic system based 
            on one's beliefs, one's thoughts and perfect linkage between body 
            and mind. Even if there is a slight gap in the system, nobody can 
            get optimum results. In the ultimate analysis what messages you send 
            to your brain decide whether, you succeed or fail. When you fail don't 
            send the same message and don't take the same actions. Emulate those 
            who have succeeded. Go a step further, evolve your own model and beseech 
            for God's blessings. 
          Potency of Belief 
            If anyone believes he can do a certain thing no power on earth would 
            deflect him from the goal. The believer has to be sincere. Sick people 
            who have belief in the efficacy of medicine are known to have recovered 
            even when they were given ordinary pills. Their belief in medicine 
            did the trick. This is known as the placebo effect. 
            Faith cure is a step ahead in the process. When a saint who is perceived 
            to have realised God gives something, it is received with great respect 
            by the devout. After taking it the person suffering from some ailment 
            gets cured. Such cases have baffled expert physicians because they 
            pronounced them incurable. It is worthwhile that these beliefs are 
            not always linked to creeds or doctrines. Anthony says a belief is 
            any guiding principle, dictum, faith or passion that can provide meaning 
            and directions to life. When we believe in something we send a command 
            to our brain. Then action follows. That is the set procedure. 
            In his book Anatomy of an Illness Norman Cousins, who got rid of his 
            own illness through belief, mentions a placebo study involving the 
            groups. They were suffering from bleeding ulcers. One group was given 
            a drug which, they were told, would give immediate relief. The second 
            group was told that the drug's potency had not yet been tested. The 
            pills given to both the groups were useless pills. But 75 per cent 
            of the patients in the first group who had belief in the pill got 
            immediate relief. The results regarding the second group were not 
            so encouraging. Only 25 per cent of them had relief. Such is the power 
            of belief. 
            Belief is the doorway to excellence, declares Anthony. There is nothing 
            static about it. Belief determines how much of our potential we use. 
            Belief is linked to actions and results. It is not divorced from them. 
            Beliefs result from the commands we give to our brain. If the commands 
            are positive, we succeed. If they are negative, we fail. It is as 
            simple as that. All the experiences - both successes and failures 
            that we have undergone - are stored in our brain. When we want to 
            succeed, we should think of those success episodes and shut out our 
            failures. Such positive thinking leads to fruitful results. We soak 
            up good and bad things in our mind. But we should control our beliefs 
            to get success. 
          Influence of 
            Environment 
            One of the main things that affect our beliefs is environment. Given 
            the right environment we can succeed. People living in ghettos fail 
            not because of the physical discomfort but because of the environment. 
            If the child of a drunkard is taken away from the ghetto and brought 
            up in a more salubrious environment, then there is every likelihood 
            of his doing better than his father. 
          Evolve of Working 
            Strategy 
            Another way of fostering belief is through knowledge. Direct experience 
            is one form of it. Other ways of getting knowledge are through reading, 
            listening, thinking and praying. 
            By doing a thing once, we will be able to have a belief in ourselves. 
            We will then be cultivating what is known as the winning or succeeding 
            habit. 
            When you aim and make up your mind to achieve the goal you will succeed. 
            This strategy is called experiencing results in advance. If you are 
            a salesman earning $3,000 a month and able to pay up your bills and 
            don't aim high you will continue to achieve the same goal. If you 
            are ambitious and set a higher goal say $5,000 and reorient your mind 
            and actions you will be able to achieve it. Anthony commends this 
            method for a successful sales career. This is what he calls not being 
            a leaf in the wind. Goals are set consciously and achieved with your 
            entire mind and heart. Every day is a new day. Every statement and 
            signal you send to the brain is relevant for that point of time. You 
            have to keep on changing the strategy and send new signals till one 
            evolves a working strategy. You have to have belief in yourself on 
            your ability to succeed. Then nothing will hold you back. Abraham 
            Lincoln, who after a string of electoral defeats, became the president 
            of America. He had belief in himself and his system became geared 
            towards excellence. He could make it to the White House from the log 
            cabin, even though the transition had not been an easy one. 
          Building Beliefs 
            Belief in failure is a way of poisoning the mind, declares Anthony 
            Robbins. There is no such thing called failure for him. It is only 
            a result. One who was overweight, according to him produced a result. 
            Now he should try to produce a result called thin. This may appear 
            to be explaining away our failures. The author gives seven guidelines 
            to build our beliefs. 
         
        
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 Everything happens 
              for a reason and purpose and it serves us. After every seeming failure, 
              there is a silver lining. Look at the positive side of things. Marilyn 
              Hamilton became a cripple after a hang-gliding mishap when she was 
              29. She was confined to a wheelchair. She did not like the wheelchair 
              and designed a better one and became highly successful in business. 
              She converted her handicap into a business opportunity. Her company 
              'Motion Designs' is a multi-million dollar success story. 
           
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 What are called 
              failures should be treated as results and lessons should be drawn 
              from them. Thomas Edison tried in vain for 9,999 times to perfect 
              the light bulb. Somebody asked him, "Are you going to have 
              ten thousand failures?" "No," he said, "I did 
              not fail. I just discovered another way not to invent the electric 
              light bulb." We learn through the trial and error method. 
           
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 Whatever happens, 
              take responsibility. That is a great leadership quality. People 
              will respect such leaders. Statesmen admit their failures. Politicians 
              crow about their little successes. 
           
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 It is not necessary 
              to understand everything to be able to use everything. Most successful 
              men know more and more of less and less. They do not use all the 
              less and less they know. They use selectively what they know. That 
              serves their purpose. You can spend all your time studying the roots 
              or spend some time on how to pick the fruit. 
           
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 People are the greatest 
              resource. Japanese companies care for their staff. Dismissal is 
              a rare occurrence in Japanese work culture. They have great regard 
              for seniority. These are difficult maxims to follow. 
           
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 Work is play. "Make 
              your vocation your vacation," advised Mark Twain. Pulling a 
              long face while at work does not make for success or results from 
              which lessons can be drawn. And finally we come to the most important 
              part, the vital link in the chain of beliefs - commitment. Without 
              commitment nothing can be achieved. It is the alpha and omega of 
              any successful undertaking. 
           
         
        The great Russian Ballerina Anna Pavlova 
          said: "To follow without halt, ONE AIM: There is the secret of 
          success." It is another way of stating the Ultimate success formula 
          - know your outcome, model what works, take action, develop the sensory 
          acuity to know what you are getting, and keep refining it until you 
          get what you want. You have to pay a price to succeed. 
        Author 
          : Ram Murthy 
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